GUIDELINES
- Writing love letters should be delicately prepared and written. These kinds of letters are commonly read many times and kept forever. Also, these letters are often very personal and emotional; you can bring up a problem unless they are used for special events such as Valentine's Day or an Anniversary. According to many young people, under 30, they opt to send an email or buy a car than to write a love letter to their special someone. They like the category of compliment or appreciation more than the love letter ideas. They think that the love letter method is an old-fashioned way to show your love to someone.
- Reminisce the same feelings you had when you knew that your loved one was leaving you.
- Tell him or her that the time you were not together made you understand your mistake that caused your separation.
- Pinpoint some of the changes you plan in yourself to bring about reconciliation.
- Promise him or her that you will do everything to her and your relationship.
SAMPLE LETTER
[Address line]
[State, ZIP Code]
[Letter Date]
[Address line]
[State, ZIP Code]
[Subject: Normally bold, summarizes the intention of the letter] -Optional-
Dear [Recipients Name],
That fateful night still replays in my mind. I can still remember how I turned the key to our door and had that strange feeling within me -- that I would not find you inside our home. I was right. I found the note that you left telling me that you were ending our relationship and that you will be staying with your best friend. It happened over three weeks ago, but I still have a deep longing in my heart every time I look at the table where you left your serious note. Feelings of anger, sadness, and regret overcame me. I was thinking about your reasons for leaving me or the things I did to you which made you go. You've warned me before that you would leave me, but I never took it to heart. The cruel reality of my empty existence without you made me contemplate on the things I did that forced you to go.
The foremost reason, I presume, is my terrible temper. When I am stressed or uncomfortable, I start saying hurting words at everyone around me. I have said sorry before but I will do better this time, my love.
I have already made an appointment with my doctor. I will tell him about my nasty temper. Probably he'll give me some anti-temper pills. You've also been suggesting for quite some time that we need to see a marriage counselor, and I've refused for so many times. Right now, I've realized how closed-minded I was, and I am willing and ready to see one. In fact, I am willing to do anything else to make our relationship work because I have already learned my lesson. I am aware that my lousy behavior is intolerable. Most of all, I know that I just cannot live without you. If you grant me an opportunity, I promise you that everything will change for the better.
Even if I am not expressive most of the time, I truly love and miss you. I hope you lose me, too -- even just a little. I wish you will consider starting anew with our relationship. We can have dinner tomorrow night at Sardi's to mark a new beginning. I believe that both of us have memorable moments at that place. I am planning to pick you up tomorrow at 6:30 PM. If you consider giving me a second chance, just turn on the porch light. Otherwise, I'll know that you are not yet prepared to see me, and I will just keep on going.
I miss you a lot.
Sincerely,
[Senders Name]
[Senders Title] -Optional-
[Enclosures: number] - Optional -
cc: [Name of copy recipient] - Optional -
Love letter asking to forgive and return to the relationship.
Further things to consider when writing love letters to someone you love
Love Letters
Love letters are letters you write to the person you love to express your affection. Whether delivered by mail, hand, or romantically left in a special location, a love letter is one of the most romantic ways to express your true feelings to the person you cherish. This letter can be anything from a lengthy explanation of feelings to a short, simple message. Love letters (especially the handwritten ones) make a special, rare treat that people can hold on to and cherish. These are keepsakes that your partner can come back to whenever he/she wants to feel a bonus burst of love.
Well drafted love letters can not only make your significant other cry tears of joy but also deepen your connection with him/her. Start by stating the purpose of the letter. It can be something like, "I was thinking about how I don't tell you enough how much I love you." Clearly express your undying love for the recipient. Refer to a shared romantic memory and mention the things you love about the recipient. Mention how your life has changed since you both met. End with a statement that sums up and reaffirms your love and commitment.
Letters to Someone You Love
Letters to someone you love are, simply, the letters you send to a person you cherish and care about. The recipient of such letters could be your parents, your brother or sister, your child, your spouse, or any other person you truly care about. Although the words can still come out of your mouth, writing a letter to someone you love gives you an opportunity to choose the right words to express your appreciation and admiration for your dearest. It doesn't matter if the letter sounds funny or funky as long as your words come from the heart.
When writing letters to someone you love, you first need to evaluate your relationship with this person so that you can determine which direction your letter is going to take. Begin the letter with an intriguing phrase that will immediately catch the recipient's attention. Tell the recipient exactly why you are taking the time to write. Discuss happy memories the two of you have shared, especially those you think the person might have forgotten over time. Mention your beloved's strong and best qualities and how he/she has changed your life. End with a statement that reaffirms your love for this person.
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